I am blessed to be witness to many people in their deepest feelings, thoughts and “unfoldments”.
It is a possibility that what I am seeing in my circle is also what the greater population of folks might be feeling.
Here is what I am noticing:
There is a sense of how fast time is moving. (Even young people are
saying this to me.) There is a sense of urgency to live out what is
inside, to get clear on what is true and not true, and to not waste
time. There is a conviction to show up fully. There is a drive to be
our best selves, to make a difference and "to get it right". Not in a
critical parent way, but rather, in a dharmic way.
(Dharma translates to mean the path of right action. I also refer to it as the alignment of action, heart and soul.)
Do you resonate with this? Is this true for you as well?
And if so, do you know yourself well enough to know what is true and not
true for you? Are you spending enough quality inner time with yourself
to honor what your truth is? Quality inner time does not mean being a
captive audience to the blah blah blah of the mind. Rather, it comes
when we are not distracted with running around with the endless list of
things to do.
When quiet enough, still enough, and in the moment without story, there
is a softening and opening, a sense of reverence , a connection, and the
whispering voice of compassion. Are you allowing this in your life?
In our January Tribal Time Gathering, I invited self-inquiry with
questions. These are not simple questions to read through quickly in the
middle of scanning all of your emails. They will not serve you unless
you take time with them at one of those quiet times you are having with
yourself. I share them with you. They are important questions to ask,
sit with, and to listen to.
(Journaling really works for questions like these.) Here they are:
How can you experience more kindness with yourself? What qualities or
attributes are developed within you that help you to meet the
unexpected? Unexpected things happen each year. This we all know to be
true. At the end of the year, each year, in December, so many times we
may ask, "Who would have ever guessed this or that would have
happened?"
What qualities or attributes would you like to see strengthened within
you this coming year? Visualize yourself in December 2014: What do you
want for yourself? How has the “you in December 2014” deepened,
expanded and grown? What would you like to see happen for yourself?
Now write this in present tense as if you are in December 2014 and this
is true.
For a moment, pretend that this is your last year embodied in this form
that you are in...And I mean, truly PRETEND! What is most important for
you to live out? What changes as you manifest? Who do you need to see?
Who do you need to spend time with? Who do you need to spend less time
with? What falls away? What becomes your focus? What is a "MUST" for
you? Take your time with deepening with this question.
Now, step into this one: Time is Eternal. There is no death, no
beginnings; only cycles, only the continual, non-ending consciousness.
Try this on. If you held this as true, what changes for you? How does
this impact your living?
Thank you for repeating the questions from last Tribal Time, as I was not able to come. Your words are sharp and cut right to the core, but the feeling isn't bad like being cut. Instead, what you wrote here makes me feel like I am floating in a cotton-candy cloud of love. That may sound cutesy, but that's what came to mind. I will take time with the questions...Love, John Schendel
As I gently embark upon my golden years, I've been practicing detachment to things and people. Knowing that when my spirit transitions, both people and things will be left behind. Although there is no love lost, I find myself feeling a bit distant even towards those I love dearly. I don't want to become indifferent or aloof. How do I balance these feelings so that my love ones don't feel "displaced" and I don't become emotionally unavailable? Does this make sense to you or do I sound like a renounciant of sorts?
Really enjoyed and embraced .. .thank you Deva!!
ReplyDeleteLove that final picture. Your words help to release hesitation and ambivilence..Lisa w
Thank you for repeating the questions from last Tribal Time, as I was not able to come. Your words are sharp and cut right to the core, but the feeling isn't bad like being cut. Instead, what you wrote here makes me feel like I am floating in a cotton-candy cloud of love. That may sound cutesy, but that's what came to mind. I will take time with the questions...Love, John Schendel
ReplyDeleteAs I gently embark upon my golden years, I've been practicing detachment to things and people. Knowing that when my spirit transitions, both people and things will be left behind. Although there is no love lost, I find myself feeling a bit distant even towards those I love dearly. I don't want to become indifferent or aloof. How do I balance these feelings so that my love ones don't feel "displaced" and I don't become emotionally unavailable? Does this make sense to you or do I sound like a renounciant of sorts?
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